MOTHER´S TALE



Help the world to listen to a child.

Biography of a part of my life.

"In a span of just over 10 years of my life, I lived next to a man who abused my son and myself (submitting us psychologically), he is using different methods such as: He did not speak to us, he only shrugged his shoulders, he locked all the cabinets and throughout the house, the windows had to be closed and also with wooden shutters which did not allow to see our own garden"

I could not make phone calls within my house, to my family living in Mexico since he had limited, if my baby was crying and I got up to comfort hem, he asked me if I was stupid. If I took a bath to get ready for my job, leave my baby on the bed and the baby soiled himself, he would grabbed the diaper, got into the shower and throw the diaper in my face. He never held the baby, neither at day or night, never picked him up. If anything, three times in three years. If he was not working and I by any chance leave the baby at home, he would get furious and wouldn't answer the phone all day. I had to send someone to see if anything happened. I never left my child with him again.

He never took part in taking care of my child when he got sick. Especially when his bronchial tubes needed constant nebulization's, day and night. He never accompanied me to the pediatrician. When we went to Africa, he wanted to leave on an island, he got on a plane, because I lacked a visa. He did not support at this time.

These are some of many examples of abuse.

He initiated a divorce about two years ago, everything and everyone turned against my son and myself.

The judge and counsel from El Paso Tx. turned their backs on me, did not take into account the different medical diagnoses: Neurologists, psychologists, which had been treated and diagnosed from childhood. Those doctors suggested that the child should not be separated from me because the child does not know his father and this will cause serious problems. Documents duly translated and notarized were sent to the court, but nobody cared.

I wept with my lawyers, asking for an attorney for my son. This petition was refused for a year, until the opposing counsel assigned a lawyer they approved.

Days later I went back to my house accompanied by my nephews and get my belongings. I immediately called to Court and an El Paso Judge didn't approve of it, scolding me and making me feel really bad. At the second hearing I asked for an interpreter and explain to the judge that I had left my house at the suggestion of the first lawyer and I had nowhere to go. I did not know anybody to give me asylum and absurdly and rude way the Judge put us on the street, even though I was desperate and crying. I had begged him and told him that we didn't have a place to stay. What was I going to do with my son, we had no clothes, furniture, nothing at all? The judge replied:

-go with your mom or anywhere else.

My son and I were on the street without any of our belongings, two years have passed ever since. We pension was assigned, house, protection or anything.

In this 21st century, this is how discrimination is towards women and children.

I cried a lot, I've lost a lot of weight, not to mention that my son who currently out of control. He suffers from insomnia, anorexia, loss of interest in his toys, aggression with everyone and everything, destroys everything and desperately cries whenever he knows his father will come and pick him up.

I went to the Mexican Consulate. The attorney behaved terribly wrong with my mother and me. He pulled me out as if we were criminals.

No one in the United States has supported me, even though I changed lawyers 4 times.

Racial Discrimination? Psychological abuse? Mistreatment to my child?

Of course!

But this is nothing

He wants to rip my son away from my arms, my care. My son has told me that his father took him to Houston 4 times, and that they had taken his thumb print, meaning that his father got him a German passport without my authorization, seriously jeopardizing his integrity, because his intentions are to take him to Germany so that I never could have him.

"I have shared evidence, watch the videos and audios on how my son does not want to go with him."

What kind of father, after seeing, hearing and feeling the anguish of his child and the mother takes him against his will?

I decided to talk after many years, during which I was threatened, he even stole his passport when my son was a year and when my mother reported it. I told him that if he tried to take my son out of America, the police would arrest him. He immediately returned the passport, leaving it at my bedside table.

I lived ten unbearable years, full of submission, abuse, and it's been two years terrified of the decisions by the laws of the state of Texas.

Now I am happy and I would like to thank Salvador Burciaga, Attorney, honorable, upright, incorruptible man. Unlike the other lawyers that ripped off for two years, they made me sign without translation, without consular advisor.

What a difference when you really are a man!

Thanks also to Human Rights, the Mexican judge, my family and all of you who are supporting me.

Viva Mexico, Viva la Libertad, Viva la Vida!

A thousand times, God Bless you all.

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